In the last
few months I have had a lot going on and haven't really had time to date much,
but when I sit back and think about all the guys out there I have no choice but
to ask myself...Where am I going to find a guy that will really accept me for
who I am? After all, I can be a lot to take...I don't take shit, I don't treat
men like they did in the 50s, I’m not a homebody, I’m not domesticated and I’m very
opinionated. Basically I'm a girl that thinks like a guy! Usually what I have
found is that at first a guy will say "I'm good with that...I like a girl
that knows what she wants", but after dating a few months they start to tighten
my reins…expecting me to be sitting on the couch every night, cooking dinner
and cleaning up after. Well this is when everything goes to hell....because
that is not who I am. Yes sure there are guys out there that are not looking to
get too serious too soon, but they are usually 1.) immature or 2.) only looking
for a one night stand or both. Why can’t there be a happy medium when it comes
to dating/relationships? A friend of mine suggested online dating sites and
I've window shopped on a few of them, but I'm just not sure it is a good fit
for me. Yet I never say never so we will see where that will lead......
With all
that said...here are a few examples of what I've dealt with in the last couple
of weeks....after reading this I'm sure the above spiel will make more sense :)
Guy #1: We
went out a few weeks ago and within 2 hours he had already informed me that CJ
isn't a proper profession for a woman and that I was crazy for having gay
friends....yep 1 date ONLY!! After that very horrible date he actually texts
me to see if he could see me the next night...my exact text was "if I
decide to go out again I will text you"! The piece to resistance is after
I posted on FB where I was and what I was doing the following night, he text me
"Yeah that was real nice of you to stand me up"....my response was
"NOOOOOOOOOO I said IF I wanted to see you again I would text you...I
didn't text you, therefore I didn't stand you up". Needless to say that
was the end of that and good riddance I might add!!!!
Guy #2: This
is a guy I hooked up with in the past, went years without talking to him and
then (just my luck) he found me on FB. Well he has been trying to get me to
"come see him" for months on end (even though he has had several
girlfriends during this time). Aside from the fact that he is obviously a
DOG....I think the part about him that annoys me the most is if I happen to
message him or respond to one of his messages with a question he NEVER answers
it! So guy#2...I stand by what I said to you...in order to be interesting to
me, you have to be interested!!!
Don’t get me
wrong…I get ask out a lot, but I never have a true connection with any of the guys. All I’m looking for is a guy I’m
attracted to both mentally and physically that will let me be me…now where do I
find him?
